Grab your Bible, pencil/pen, piece of paper, a cup or jar and get ready to experience Jesus with your kids! Here’s your theme…Self-control is choosing to do what you should even when you don’t want to.
Say to them, “Wouldn’t it be cool if you could capture all the things you think about in a day and put them in a jar? That jar would probably be full of some pretty random stuff.”
Like…
“Is lunch time yet? “Does my breath stink?”
“Okay, those thoughts are kind of silly. But what about negative thoughts?”
Like…
“I’ll never understand this math homework.” “No one likes me.”
Now share with them, “Part of having self-control is controlling our thoughts. The key to stopping those negative thoughts, is to trap them. When those negative thoughts creep in, we need to remember what Jesus has done for us. That will help us focus our thoughts on what is true, noble, right and pure, lovely and worthy of respect.”
Read Philippians 4:8 with your kids.
Parents: Write down a positive thought you’ve had as an example for them. Now, have them write down a positive thought they’ve had about themselves on the same piece of paper. Rip it off and place it in the cup.
Now, both of you write down a negative thought on the paper. Read today’s verse again and ask God to help you both trap those negative thoughts as you focus on Jesus. Crumple up the negative ones and throw them in the trash. You can do this every day for a week and at the end of the week review the positive notes and thank God for all the blessings in your life.
Have fun!